Basket Weaving Wisdom

Bought this beautiful Sift Basket by Iva Honyestewas

I had the pleasure of meeting Iva Honyestewa at the National Museum of the American Indian during an event celebrating the art of basket weaving by Indigenous women. The occasion illuminated the beauty of Native basketry and the importance of preserving this tradition through various weaving techniques, materials, and the stories woven into each creation. Iva graciously shared her process of crafting baskets from yucca plants, meticulously splitting, sorting, and naturally dyeing each strand before coiling them into intricate designs. It struck me how much time and deliberate effort she invests, often spending upwards of three hours on preparation alone before even beginning to weave the basket, typically used for sifting corn.

Reflecting on this, I couldn't help but draw parallels to our own parenting journeys. Just as the beauty of Iva's baskets emerges from her dedicated labor, so too do we unfold into our fullest potential through intentional effort. In my previous post, "The Triangular Dance: Child, Adult, and Environment," I emphasized the importance of Spiritual Preparation as an integral part of our growth. Much like Maslow's hierarchy suggests, meeting our basic needs lays the foundation for pursuing higher aspirations, such as forming meaningful relationships and self-expression.

Recognizing our imperfections, yet committing to the work, allows us to delve into the core of who we are and our approach to life, including how we embrace Montessori principles or any other meaningful aspect of our lives. Neglecting the needs of the soul or psyche in childhood can lead to emotional insecurity or immaturity in adulthood, while a lack of spiritual nurturing may result in a sense of meaninglessness or a shallow pursuit of power and possessions. Part of my spiritual walk, I've found profound insights in "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality" by Peter Scazzero, where he describes how the integration of emotional and spiritual maturity initiates a transformative shift in perspective wrote, “When I finally discovered the link between emotional maturity and spiritual maturity, a Copernican revolution began for me and there was no going back.” “The spiritual pathway…It cuts to the root of everything about our lives,..”

In this process, we soar to places we don’t think we can soar to or become. “Resisting change is what is causing you to continue suffering.” “Though change might be painful, it also precedes growth, progress, success, redemption, and pretty much everything good in life” as beautifully expressed by Rebekah Borucki in "Managing the Mother Load."

In conclusion, as parents or caregivers, it's okay not to have all the answers. Embracing the mysteries of life is part of our journey. While our paths may differ, having spiritual grounding enables us to nurture the beautiful spirits of our children. Maria Montessori beautifully captured the profound effort required for a child to adapt to life, highlighting the mysterious potentialities inherent in each new soul.

In our next discussion and post, we will unravel the intricate connections between human tendencies—the innate drives guiding our behaviors—and the developmental planes outlined by Maria Montessori. From the pursuit of order to the dynamics of social interaction, we'll analyze how these tendencies shape individuals' interactions with their environment and contribute to their journey toward fulfillment.

Thank you for tuning in to Montessori Heketi House. Until next time, remember to dance to the rhythm of your own heartbeat and sprinkle some grace and gratitude wherever you go. ¡Adios!

For practical tips on fostering Spiritual Preparation, check out the attached document. 

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